Currently I have all stiff flexes in my bag except my 3 wood. My problem is I do not swing hard enough for a stiff flex to work to it's full potential. The only reason I have stiff flexes in my bag is I would rather hit the fairway than be 20 yards past but in the rough. I also like stiff flexes because they do not feel as mushy as most reg flex shafts I have tried. My problem Is most people tell me to go to regular flex shafts because they will work better for me. What should I do?