So I have been on a ball journey for over 12 months. My wife hates it because we have a bunch of half empty ball boxes. I loved the BXS but the durability was poor and the spin with the Driver would get to spin my at times. My handicap is a 9 and dropping. On Titleist’s site it says the 1and X are the same off driver and short irons (spin wise). Where do they start “short irons” I feel I need my 7 to stop faster. Want a one hope and stop from 7i and in. Doesn’t matter if it’s soft or firm. What one should I lean towards?